July 24

With less than a month left before I go off to college, maybe reality is starting to sink in. When I say reality here, I’m referring to my own financial reality. I realized, I’m going to need a job. If you’re like me and looking at need-based financial aid, “federal work study” is a phrase you’re probably going to hear a lot, and it may or may not be offered by your college as a way to pay for school. In my case, Harvard wants me to earn $1500/semester through a campus job. How it works is the school subsidizes affiliated employers to hire me. Any money I earn through the job goes straight to my pocket, but I’ll have to pay the school at the end of the year, or at the end of the semester.

Now, in looking for a job, Harvard (and I’m sure other schools do this too) has provided its students with a great tool called the online Jobs Database. I simply type in what kinds of jobs I’m interested in — research, administrative, tutoring, community service, etc. — and I get a whole list of job openings that match what I’ve input. The site then gives specifics on what kind of worker the employer is looking for, how much is being paid by the hour, what the job entails, all of that. It makes finding a job really easy. Though securing one of these jobs, I’ve learned, is a whole different issue.

So here I am, perusing the job database when I find what seems to be the perfect position. It’s a paid internship at a laboratory experimenting with 3D printing to make human tissue, and looking at how the printed biomaterials interact with stem cells in the body. They’re looking for Harvard College students (meaning undergrads), with weekly hours ranging from five to twenty hours. At this point, all sorts of excitement are shooting through me. This would be an amazing lab to work in: I’d get experience in research relating to my field, I’d learn topics that would be helpful looking ahead to med school, *and* I’d get paid. Jackpot.

So I contact the name listed as a reference as well as the professor in the lab, letting them know of my interest. A few days later, I get this in my inbox.

Thank you so much for your email and interest in the projects I will be involved in during my Radcliffe Fellowship tenure. As my time at Harvard will be relatively short in experiments terms, I would like to hire a student who has previous lab experience in skeletal biology.

A very polite, but clearly-stated rejection. Let me say that I’m used to this kind of disappointment when trying to get into labs — I went through ten of them when I was trying to find one to work in while in high school. However, I expected that, being a college undergrad at Harvard, I’d have a little more luck in this department. Unfortunately, it seems as though the problem is still the same. Professors want someone with more experience. In high school, when people asked me about how I got into the labs I did, my response was to keep trying. Email the professors. Be persistent. You’re going to get ‘no’s’, you just have to keep asking until someone says yes. I think I have to apply that advice to myself now as I get over my first rejection at Harvard. You might not always get the first thing you ask for, but maybe it’s for a reason. Who knows, maybe a better job opportunity will come along?

For now though, it looks like I’m still looking for a way to make $3000 this school year. Without knowing my class schedule or rooming situation yet though, it’s not like this job is the only thing up in the air.

July 17

Dorm Decor

If you’re going to school on the East Coast (aka the “Beast Coast”), a nautical theme for your dorm room is easy, cute, and relevant. As I begin packing for college, here are the top five decorative, yet functional, decor pieces I’ve bought for my dorm that any sailor would be proud of.

  1. Graphic throw pillows
    Pick ones with anchors, crabs, lobsters, fish, or even just navy/white or red/white stripes. They’ll look great on the bed on days when you have time to arrange them, or just serve as something soft to lean back on if you throw them on a futon or the floor.
  2. Nautical laundry basket
    You’re going to need a place to store your worn clothes before its time to wash them. What better than a canvas, anchor-studded laundry bag? I bought mine with thick rope handles, but if you find a large bag with a drawstring, that might make lugging the bag to the washing machines a bit easier.
  3. Fun with Fish: Bowls, plates, and mugs
    For the times when you aren’t eating in the dining halls, or need your own mug for the library’s coffee machines, these hand-made plates and mugs* (made in Portugal) are must-haves.
  4. Maritime extra-long twin bed sheets
    Tommy Hilfiger has lots of great designs on its beddings that would fit the sailor theme. My personal favorite is the ‘Aaron Lobster’ design (pictured above), but there are others featuring seagulls, anchors, pineapples, and navy stripes that would work just as well. Just remember to buy the right size sheets for your dorm bed. My mattress happens to be an extra-long twin, but make sure to check yours out before purchasing anything.
  5. 10yd Decorative Sailor Rope
    Alright, this one isn’t super functional but you can use a thick rope as decoration around the room to tie the theme together. Hang some small lights (the Christmas-kind) across the ropes and attach a few lengths to your wall. Or, wrap some photographs from home in rope as a frame. You could also wrap the rope around your bed posts, or make a rope garland for your door. Get creative and have fun with it!

*link leads only to plates, but bowls and mugs are also available online.

July 1

Can you believe this blog is already a year old? I regret not using it more; college-application thoughts were certainly in abundance all throughout the process, and went on even after the May 1st decision deadline. Getting into the Ivies was unbelievable, but choosing between them was excruciating. As it turns out, I never got to see Princeton, and barely knew anything about it (though I had helpful conversations with my interviewer). I didn’t get to revisit Yale either. Several days were spent at the visit weekends of Harvard, MIT, and UChicago. In the end… I went Crimson (shocker, I know, but at the time, it was one of the hardest decisions I ever had to make)!

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So now what? Well, I figure I can still use this blog to chronicle my freshman year at Harvard (and continue giving tips to those who are still applying), starting from today. Even before school starts, I’ve already had to take five placement tests, including a five-page essay based on sixty pages of source material where I was restricted to the time span of seventy-two hours. I would complain — well, I already have… many times — but I think that’s the price you pay for going here. It’s going to be a lot of work, and this is just the beginning.

March 25

Okay, I’m going to hold off on talking about how helpful it is to get third party college advice (maybe I’ll  get to that in another post). Instead, I just wanted to share a bit of insight: the college process isn’t over after you press submit on all of your applications. I thought I was done in January, but I was so wrong. The anxiety continues — at least it has for me — with everything peaking April 1st. What’s up with April Fool’s Day? Well, it happens to be the day when most colleges release their decisions.

As of today, here’s where my decision status lies:

Early Acceptances (😄): MIT, UChicago, UMichigan, Agnes Scott, University of Alabama

Regular Acceptances (🙂): Northwestern, Brandeis, University of Illinois in Champaign-Urbana

Waitlists (😕): WashU

Rejected (😔): Johns Hopkins

Still waiting on (😬): Yale, Harvard, Princeton, Emory, Tufts, Rice

It’s those schools that I’m still waiting on that are causing so much stress. First of all, I’m already having trouble deciding between the schools I’ve been accepted to. Technical school or liberal arts? Big classes or small? All of the things I should have had figured out before I applied to college are now coming into play, and I’m on a time crunch to make a decision. Then, if I get in anywhere else (chances are extremely slim, but that’s another factor adding to my stress levels — I had a nightmare the other night of not getting into Harvard…), I’ll have an even tougher decision to make.

Money ties into everything too. For example, UIUC is way out of reach because they want me to borrow $10,000 a year in loans, which might not sound too bad, but just doesn’t work with what my family can support. As I’ve seen so far, the “prestigious”, Ivy-type schools are much more generous when it comes to financial aid. If MIT pays for everything, I’m much more likely to go there than UMichigan (though UMich was surprisingly generous with aid too!). Being able to pay for college was another huge reason I even applied for the Ivies. UIUC can’t be a safety if I can’t pay to go there. I need someone to cover *everything,* and luckily, the ‘elite’ schools can do that.

I realize though, that going to an Ivy isn’t everything. I could probably get a similar education at other institutions, and I know so many people who have thrived after attending big public universities. So that dynamic complicates things even further.

To wrap up, I guess I just want to stress how stressful the months of March and April can be while you wait for decisions and prepare to make your own. There’s a lot more to the college application process than writing the essays and doing the interviews, because once those are done, you have to look forward and keep reflecting on yourself — where can you feel at home for the next four years? The answer might not always be the highest ranked school.

 

 

January 6 (2016)

Wow, here I am, now nearing the end of my college journey. Needless to say, it was stressful. I think the reason I have been so inactive on my blog has been because of the sheer amount of work I’ve had on my plate, not only from college applications but also from schoolwork and so many extracurriculars. Since August, so much as happened, but on Sunday, December 20th, I submitted my last college application. While I could summarize the entire stream of up’s and down’s, I think I’d rather break it up into smaller segments and so, this time, I’ll talk about a path that ended for me in October — QuestBridge.

After working on my application for the scholarship since August (and really, since last December if we count the QuestBridge College Prep Scholar Program), I was beyond devastated to learn I wasn’t selected as a Finalist. It was hard to deal with the rejection, especially knowing that some of my classmates had received the Finalist status. Thoughts like, “What did I do wrong?” and “Will I even get into college now?” flashed through my mind all the time. But after having time to reflect, I think the program did help me in some ways… and not so much in others.

The Pros

  • QuestBridge helped me prepare my application materials ahead of time. Having a tendency to procrastinate, it was good for me to have that September deadline to work with. As a result, I was one of the first students to get my teacher recommendations, and I had completed many essays and forms that I would use later in the college application process (my QuestBridge Statement, for example, became my CommonApp personal statement).
  • Along similar lines, the College Prep Scholarship got me thinking about college, and learning about the admission process very early on. I learned so much about selective admissions by attending the seminar in Atlanta, Georgia, and reading emails sent to me by the program
  • My college list was defined early (surprise, surprise), and while I was seriously questioning the schools I was applying to later on, the majority of schools I applied to were QuestBridge-partnered schools. I wouldn’t have considered many of them if it had not been for the scholarship program.

The Cons

  • Not really a con, but maybe just something to remember: The QuestBridge Finalist decision can seem random, because oftentimes, race and socioeconomic status can outweigh other factors, like essays, extracurriculars, etc.
  • Because QuestBridge comes so early in the the college application process, it can become really easy to let all of your hopes rest on this scholarship. Please don’t do this! Have a backup plan. I learned this the hard way. I almost assumed I would receive Finalist status, and was unprepared when I had to apply regularly to many of the schools I assumed I would be applying to via QB. I can’t underline this enough: Have a plan B.

That’s it for now. Next time, I’ll talk about the importance of mentors in the college application process, especially for us students applying without a parent who has been through this before. Until then!

August 23

Oops, time has really passed me by this last month. Much has changed since I last wrote, and this month has been full of advances in my college application process. First, and maybe most importantly, I’ve made a (hesitant) list of colleges I’ll be applying to. Here they are, in no particular order. Well okay, the ones at the top are schools I’d love to go to…

  1. Harvard (aka Hogwarts, the H-school)
    I’ve visited Harvard twice now. Once this summer in late July and the other visit I made two years ago. It’s a beautiful campus, tons of financial aid, and come on, it’s Harvard.
  2. Yale
    I can’t say how much I love Yale. I had the pleasure of spending two weeks here as a Yale Young Global Scholar and it may have been some of the most memorable weeks of my life. Seriously. I can’t think of anything better than spending four years here.
  3. Princeton
    Yeah… Harvard, Yale, and Princeton, or HYP for short. I’ve heard Princeton is a country-club type atmosphere but I’ve also heard that it’s great so why not put it on the list.
  4. Stanford
    I’m not much of a West-coast kind of person but my friend just came back from summer at Stanford and she highly recommended that I apply to this school.
  5. MIT
    Look up “MIT Hacks.” They’re hilarious.
  6. UChicago
    It’s close to home, has great academics, and the architecture reminds me of my school.
  7. Northwestern
    Also a good Chicago school
  8. Rice
    I actually never expected putting this on my list, especially since it’s in Texas, but it has a really strong science program.
  9. Emory
    Also in the South but I visited it during the QuestBridge College Prep conference and loved the school (beautiful campus and interesting traditions, plus a strong tie to the hospital)
  10. Johns Hopkins
    Strong pre-med program
  11. Tufts
    Quirky school in Boston, also strong in pre-med
  12. University of Pennsylvania
    Umm… it’s also a good school.
  13. Washington University
    Fairly close to home with a really nice campus and a good science program
  14. University of Illinois in Urbana-Champaign
    This is more of a safety school, and is a little too big for my liking, but has a lot of resources to offer if I did study here.
  15. (maybe) Columbia/Dartmouth/Oberlin
    These three aren’t really on the list but I may apply to them if I have time.

The list may change, it’s definitely not final, although the first five I know I will apply to, hopefully through QuestBridge. Speaking of QuestBridge, it’s due in about a month and I still need teacher recommendations and financial information. Not to mention I need to finish one extended essay, one short essay, and five small additional questions. There’s a long road ahead.

July 16

After a week in Clarksdale, Mississippi, interviewing people in the Delta, and attending a QuestBridge conference for College Prep scholars in Atlanta, Georgia, I’m finally back home. Of course, I got right to work on my college applications. I finished the first draft of my Personal Statement, answering the question:

We are interested in learning more about you and the context in which you have grown up, formed your aspirations, and accomplished your academic successes. Please describe the factors and challenges that have most shaped your personal life and aspirations. How have these factors helped you to grow?

I wrote about how I was affected by my parents’ decision to immigrate to the US, and although my second draft is done (my first draft got changed a lot after hearing a few lectures at the QuestBridge conference), the essay still needs a lot of work. I also got started on a UChicago essay prompt. I had so many prompts to choose from, but ended up writing on this one:

The instructor said,
Go home and write
a page tonight.
And let that page come out of you—
Then, it will be true.
—”Theme for English B” by Langston Hughes

It may end up getting scrapped because UChicago likes a lot of creativity, but we’ll see.

For any who happen to be reading my blog, do you recommend hiring an essay coach to critique my work? I would share them with my English teachers at school, but some seem too personal to share with them (which makes me question why I’m laying it all out on the line for some colleges but that’s a whole other issue).

July 2, 2015

One book I’ve read says that colleges first see you as a list of descriptors, including your gender, race, geography, parent education status (and legacy), and income level. I guess that would mean I’m:

-Female
-White (both immigrated from Romania)
-Midwestern
-No legacy
-Parents have both been to college
-Low income

Super appealing, right? (sarcasm implied) The academics, extracurriculars, essays, etc. come after these factors and they are what an applicant can change about how they are viewed by a university. During the course of this blog, I’ll try to describe my struggles and (hopefully) my successes in crafting the perfect application and choosing the right colleges.

We’ll start with today (what else?), July 2nd, the middle of the summer between my junior and senior year. I began my essay for the CommonApp, which just released its questions for the 2015-16 school year. You can check them out here. For my essay, I’ve decided to tackle the first question, which reads:

  1. Some students have a background, identity, interest, or talent that is so meaningful they believe their application would be incomplete without it. If this sounds like you, then please share your story.

Really, you could write one essay and tweak it slightly to fit any other essay question on the CommonApp. I know I will recycle my CommonApp essay for another application I have begun to fill out for the Questbridge National College Match, a great scholarship providing four-year full-rides to its finalists. I started the essay late at night, and this blog even later. Welcome to my life.

By the way, because I live in the Midwest, I created the post late on July 2nd, although WordPress seems to think it’s July 3rd. Just to clarify.